Kathy Bence Kathy Bence

Polygamy in the Temple Today

The majority of the women who enter the temple believe god endorses everything that happens there. Shouldn’t they be informed that, according to their beliefs, they are signing up for eternal polygamy?

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Does Our Doctrine enable Abuse?

It’s time to clarify to members, other polygamist sects, and the world that a mistake was made. This mistake caused harm. But we can repent and no longer contribute to the damage.

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Kathy Bence Kathy Bence

Jacob 2:30—Comparing Meanings

Jacob 2:30 is the linchpin of multiple wives—or at least it is if you interpret verse 30 to mean that God will occasionally command this lifestyle

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Kathy Bence Kathy Bence

The Antidote to 132

Men are condemned for having multiple wives in Jacob 2 and women are condemned if they don’t become multiple wives in Section 132. Jacob 2 goes head-to-head with Section 132 hitting on many of the same points but with the opposite view.

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Kathy Bence Kathy Bence

Another Interpretation of Jacob 2:30

Ryan Fisher postulates that the missing piece of the theological puzzle is that the promised land must be a specific location, with clear rules for the occupants

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Faith in God

Believing that God is an eternal polygamist derails faith—it interferes with a correct understanding of God’s character, perfections, and attributes

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Kathy Bence Kathy Bence

Not an Innocent Bystander

The Church is the majority Mormon sect—the main polygamous church, the one that no longer wants to be associated with polygamy or called LDS or Mormon (probably for fear of being confused with polygamists)—that has perpetuated the doctrine behind this legislation

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A Speculative Explanation Found Wanting

Like a Ponzi scheme, the first men investing in polygamy take multiple wives, including those much younger than themselves, but the generations of later investors have already contributed their potential wives, so the multiple wives scheme is doomed to collapse

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Living this Principle Causes Harm

The evidence shows that living polygamy is harmful to families, which makes it confusing that a family-centered church ever endorsed a potentially family-damaging principle

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Kathy Bence Kathy Bence

Conflicting Doctrine — Relationships, Sex, Sin

Zina Diantha Huntington Jacobs Smith Young, married monogamously to Henry Jacobs, then polygamously to Joseph Smith and later polygamously again to Brigham Young, had more than enough credentials to speak on this topic

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The Basis for the Doctrine

Hagar, not Sarah, is the example for multiple wives.  By joining Sarah and Abraham, a slave with limited agency creates the threesome that becomes our model for this family arrangement

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